14.12.2025

This Everyday Habit Can Influence Your Memory With Age — Recommendations for Older Adults

By Vitia

As we age, maintaining memory acuity becomes a priority so that we can continue to enjoy life independently. However, recent studies warn that such a common daily habit can accelerate cognitive decline much more than we think.

In this article, you’ll find out what that habit is, why it has such an impact on memory, and, most importantly, what you (or an older family member) can do to counteract it. Don’t miss it!

What is that habit and what do studies reveal?

The article analyzes that the habit that poses the most danger to memory in adulthood is social isolation (feeling lonely or experiencing loneliness), that is: the lack of meaningful social connections. According to the presentation, those who live with frequent episodes of loneliness have a much higher risk of developing dementia or accelerated cognitive decline.

Specifically:

  • A University of Florida study that evaluated about 12,000 older adults for 10 years found that those who felt lonely had a 105% increased risk of developing dementia.
  • Another Japanese study that looked at eating alone — a marker of social isolation — found a 68 percent increased risk of developing dementia for those who ate it regularly.
  • The article points out that loneliness can even change the structure of the brain: smaller volumes of gray matter in areas related to emotion and memory.

In short: it’s not just a matter of “having company,” but of having meaningful conversations, emotional bonds, and active social stimuli. Loneliness activates chronic stress responses (such as elevated cortisol) that damage the hippocampus—the key region for memory—faster than normal.

Why does this habit affect memory so much?

1. Stress and neuroinflammation

When an older person feels isolated, their brain interprets it as a sign of social “threat.” This activates the stress system: elevated cortisol, brain inflammation, faster neuronal damage.

2. Less cognitive stimulation

Social interaction activates multiple networks in the brain: language, attention, working memory, emotion, face recognition. When it disappears (or is minimized), the brain has less “training,” which favors premature cognitive decline.

3. Less cognitive reserve

“Cognitive reserve” is the brain’s ability to resist damage and still function well. Conversations, social participation, new experiences—all contribute to that reservation. Loneliness weakens her.

4. Detectable structural changes

Studies indicate that prolonged loneliness is not only noticeable in behavior, but also modifies brain structure: volume reduction in regions linked to memory and emotion.

Recommendations for older adults (and those who accompany them)

If you’re an older adult or a caregiver, these actions can make a difference in memory health.

Building meaningful connections:

  • Participate regularly—at least once a week—in group activities: book clubs, group walks, volunteering, art or music classes.
  • Prioritize quality over quantity: it doesn’t matter how many people you have around, but that the interactions make sense, active listening, reciprocity.
  • If mobility is reduced, consider interactive video calls with family or friends: talking, playing online, cooking “together” remotely.
  • Make at least one long phone call (10-15 minutes) with someone with whom you had less contact; Reactivating those links already helps.

Stimulating the mind and body together:

  • Invite a friend or family member to walk with you; Physical activity + conversation combine the social + the cognitive.
  • Sign up for workshops where you must learn something new (technology, language, crafts): the brain “grows” when it is demanded.
  • Alternate living rooms with board games, puzzles, group chats: the important thing is to be active in community.

Avoid isolation from the environment:

  • If you live alone, establish daily routines that include contact with others: morning call, coffee with neighbor, small visit.
  • It facilitates access to transport or means of attending activities outside the home.
  • Encourage the pet or plant with joint care: having an active responsibility also opens social doors (interacting with other owners, sharing experiences).

Warning signs to look out for:

  • If you notice that the elderly person avoids contacts, they always “don’t feel like it”, say “I don’t go out anymore” or “no one calls me anymore”: be attentive.
  • Changes in mood: sadness, apathy, lack of initiative can precede cognitive impairments.
  • Difficulty following conversations, forgetting appointments or frequent social gatherings: as soon as they appear, take action.

The good news is that it’s not too late. The older adult brain still retains plasticity, that is: the ability to adapt, grow new connections and improve its “cognitive reserve”. Changing a single habit — such as investing in meaningful social relationships — can make all the difference.



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