10.09.2025

⚖️ “My Children Don’t Talk to Me Anymore — Can I Disinherit Them?” A Notary’s Direct Answer That Everyone Should Hear

By Vitia

It’s one of the most painful questions a parent can ask:
“My children have cut me off emotionally. They don’t call, they don’t visit, they don’t care. Can I legally disinherit them?”

This question is not just about money — it’s about dignity, disappointment, and the right to decide what happens to the legacy you’ve built. A respected notary recently addressed this issue with clarity and compassion, offering insight into what the law allows and what your rights truly are.


🧾 What the Notary Explained

In many countries, inheritance law includes something called “forced heirship” — meaning that children may have a legal right to a portion of your estate, regardless of your wishes. However, there are exceptions. If there is documented emotional abandonment, abuse, or a complete breakdown of the relationship, some legal systems allow for disinheritance under specific conditions.

The notary emphasized:

  • You are not obligated to leave your assets to anyone who has abandoned you emotionally.
  • You have the right to enjoy your property during your lifetime — sell it, spend it, or donate it as you wish.
  • If you choose to leave nothing behind, or to leave your estate to someone else, you must do so through a clear and legally valid will.
  • In some cases, proof of neglect or estrangement may be required to justify disinheritance.

💬 What People Are Saying

Many older adults are choosing to live fully, travel, and enjoy their savings rather than leave it to children who have distanced themselves. Others are donating to causes they care about or supporting grandchildren directly.

The message is clear:
Your legacy is yours to shape. Your love and effort deserve respect — not silence.


💬 Let’s Talk About Family, Boundaries, and Dignity

If you found this post meaningful or thought-provoking, please take a moment to:

  • Share this post with friends and family — someone may be silently struggling with this question.
  • Like this post to support honest conversations about aging, family, and personal rights.
  • Follow this page for more legal insights, emotional wellness content, and empowering stories.
  • Leave a comment below — we would love to hear your thoughts, your experience, or your questions about inheritance and family relationships.

Your engagement helps build a community that values truth, healing, and shared wisdom.


The information provided is for informational purposes only and does not replace professional legal or medical care.